Her father’s decision to enroll her in the movie industry is
uncommon among most Nigerian parents whose perceptions about the
entertainment industry are inimical to the talents of their children.
But star actress, Uche Ogbodo’s father is one man who has not
failed in his duty to foresee the future of her daughter as a star. Born
in the ghetto and growing up there had prepared the beautiful but
charming actress for the vicissitudes of life. In an interview with The
Entertainer, Ogbodo recounts her experiences in Nollywood. Excerpts:
How did you venture into acting?
It was something that came by accident. My father brought me into
Nollywood. I never knew anything about the industry until my father
encouraged me to go into acting. I have been doing drama since I was a
kid. At the time, I had just finished my secondary school. He came home
one day and told me he had something I might be interested in. He told
me he had a link to Nollywood. He told me he met someone who could
introduce me into the industry. That was it. The next day, my father got
me registered with Actors Guild of Nigeria. My father believes in me,
and also in my talent. He wanted everything about me to be expanded, he
knows me too well and he knows also that nothing can influence me. So, I
appreciate my father for the role he played in my life.
How has the journey been?
Ok, well, back then, going down memory lane. It has not been easy for
me, I am strong as I normally say because as I sit down, I thought deep
and I saw my future, that is where I was going or where I was heading
to or my exact destination, really, it has not been easy. I left
secondary school and I got into the university then I got into Nollywood
at the same time. Through my father who registered me in the Actors
Guild in Enugu back then. It has not been so easy for me; it has been
tough because I had to juggle between school and job. When I got into
Nollywood, it was not a bed of roses, there were a lot of females and a
lot of competition, but I had faith in myself and capability that I
would do whatever anybody would do. I was talented, but a bit
intimidated. Intimidated in the sense that I knew that it will take me a
lot of time to get to the level of the girls ahead of me, but I knew
that the journey of a thousand miles starts with a step. I was ready to
take those steps and I knew that with hard work, my tomorrow was bright.
Thus building on my career and getting to the level of my mentors and
ahead of them if possible.
Can you tell us about your years of growing up?
When I was growing up, I was afraid of becoming a failure. I was also
afraid of getting married and being controlled by a man. I grew up
thinking I would not get married due to some things that happened in my
life when I was younger. I came to the conclusion that men were wicked
and that they were terrible people. I would not like to talk about that.
As I was growing, I started knowing people, meeting men, my father
taught me so many things and advised me to stop thinking about men in a
bad image, and to stop having fears about men, and he also told me that I
would meet a better man tomorrow. I was like I can take care of myself,
I was highly independent and also outspoken, I can take care of my
people, I thought I was a man and I should be the one controlling men
not verse versa. I started changing my initial opinion about men as I
grew up and as I met with men and as I started working in this industry.
I think men are great people with good hearts too.
Tell us more about what brought you into the limelight?
When I was growing up, I used to rent films, I did it because we
weren’t so rich and I lived the same way a normal child should. I came
from the ghetto. I had a good family; I had good parents who were
moralists and all that helped me while growing up, stopping me from
going into anything that would have ruined my life. Coming to my talent,
I used to rent a lot of films that I would watch but I never believed
that I would be an actress later in life because I wanted to be a
lawyer. Although as a kid, I used to act with other children in the
neighborhood. I really enjoyed acting and it influenced my life greatly.
In a movie you did with ‘Mama ‘G’, you acted like a real ghetto lady, are you fierce in real life?
In any role given to me to act, I cue myself into it, bringing the
person into life. I do not smoke in real life. My real life person is so
different from the character I act as my fans would term me ‘a worldly
person’. The real me is calm, calculative and collective. The ghetto is a
place where you have different people and their ways of life. I grew up
in the ghetto but I did not get carried away with life in the ghetto. I
am a very rational person, which is quite different from my acting as a
worldly person in television. My real life is very different. I am a
calm and collected person. I grew up in the ghetto and I know every good
and bad thing that every kid that grew up in the ghetto knows. I do not
smoke cigarette, I was a virgin till I was 20 years old. Before I had
my first boyfriend, I was already in Nollywood.
How did you lose your virginity?
As I said earlier, I met my first boyfriend at 20. I came from a
Christian home and was trained by Christian parents. My father made sure
we imbibed the Christian values and this helped me very much in my
career as an actress. I actually thought that as a Nollywood actress I
was ripe enough to have a boyfriend and this will make me feel more
sophisticated. I did not lose my virginity to an actor, you know.
How did you lose it?
I did not stumble on losing my virginity, I was ready for it and I knew what I was getting into.
How did you feel as a woman after losing your virginity?
I was ready, I felt like I was ready to bring the world down. I felt like whatever it is, bring it on.
Most people assume that personalities like you are not down-to-earth, can you cook?
Oh my God, I can cook very well. In fact, that is my hobby. I love
cooking and I love it so much. I love to explore, I love to learn new
methods. I can cook both continental and intercontinental foods. In
fact, I did a course in cooking some time ago. I know so many things
about cooking. I love beans and bread; I can’t do without it.
What accessories you cannot let go of?
I love to wear my make-ups when I am going out but in my day-to-day
life, I do not wear makeup. For instance, I am not making up right now. I
am not wearing makeup but I can go out. I am not so crazy about
make-up. From January to December, I may not make up still I will look
beautiful. I do not really care about what people say about me. I also
like wearing high heels. When I am going on any occasion, if I do not
wear heels, then I am not ready to go.
What is your favourite colour and why?
I love bright colours because I am a happy person. I am a bright
person, full of life and I think that colour depicts my mood. Today, I
am wearing orange and brown maybe I am having mixed emotions, you know
(laugh).
What are the challenges you face in the movie industry?
There are many challenges in the field, but generally, we face
intimidation and harassments. Sometimes ago, I arrested a person that
beat me up. This is something that I face every day in my life, but I
just know that I can overcome it, so I do not let them worry or wear me
down. To me, they are not challenges anymore because I can conquer them.
Why would someone slap you?
Such things happened because of indiscipline; however I went to court with the person. Anyway, don’t let us go into that.
Were you slapped because you refused to summit to their sexual harassment?
No man can ever do that because I am not one of those actresses that
sell their bodies for roles. I am not and I have passed that level. I am
a Christian and I think my body belongs to my God, and God gave me this
talent so I can explore it and even if I want to have anything to do
with any man, I will do it on the basis of likeness. I would not do it
on the basis of my job.
Do you still go church?
Yes, I go to church. I am a Christian.
What’s the craziest thing a fan has done to you?
A fan was stalking me and got me scared. He was calling me on the
phone and making short calls always. He was calling me in the midnight
and when I picked the phone, the person will say rubbish, he will be
blowing me kisses like for 20 minutes. Imagine 20 minutes and my phone
will be on and he won’t say anything. Before you know it, he will call
me over 100 times a day and blow me kisses. He was a ghost caller. I
just knew he was a fan, who only blows kisses at me, but does not say
anything. At a point, I became scared. At another point, I started
receiving another caller who will call by 11:30pm and tell me he wanted
to f—k me, funny enough, I have never met these people.
What pranks did you play in the ghetto?
In the ghetto, the funny thing is that I was a tomboy. In the ghetto,
I was not a girl; I was a boy. I used to climb all the trees and I used
to beat up all the boys in a street fight. However, people in the
street were afraid of me. I played football with the boys. I did with
the boys anything they did. As I grew older, my father started teaching
me how to be a lady. This made me a stron lady. Already, I was a star in
the ghetto. I was really beautiful as a young lady growing up, but I
was more interested in becoming a tomboy than a girl.
Which of your movies made you popular?
Well, I really cannot tell the movie that made me popular because I
put all my efforts in every movie that I do. You know, I just knew I was
a star, so I won’t just say this particular movie brought me into the
limelight. I showed my first salary to my father because it was the
first salary that I earned in my life. I felt glad and I was happy.
Tell us the happiest moment in your life?
I do not have the happiest moment in my life. I have happy moments
every day of my life. Everything that happens in my life is beautiful
and special so I think I have special moments every time. But I can say
this is the happiest day in my life because I am always happy.
Have you been heartbroken?
Yes, I have been heartbroken once. Well, it happened in Lagos. It
happened that the relationship did not work out. Yea, I was also
surprised to hear that I have settled down with a man. I heard the
rumour at the time. I want to state that I am not yet married. I am
single and still searching. If there is anything to qualify single and
over searching, I am. (laughs) “make dey no spoil my market”. I also
heard that I had a child, which is not true. I hear a lot of gist about
me, which are not true (laughs). Yes, I am not getting younger but I
have to wait for God to give me a husband. Yes, a good husband (laughs).
I am not in a hurry to get married but I know any time soon I am going
to invite you to my wedding.
What is your ideal man?
I like honest and good-looking men with an enviable dress sense. He must have good sense of style and the fear of God.